Sex…It’s a Team Effort!!
Ok, so as I said before I will be
discussing many different topics in Men’s health such as sexual health. Well this is the first post to feature sexual health and it’s probably not so much as about sexual health per-say but more about the difference between men and women when it comes to sexual climax.
How this all started. I had the day off (July 5th, yes this is a bit old) and as usual if I have too much time on my hands my mind wanders as every man’s mind wanders. Anyway, I was mowing the lawn and I paused to get some water inside and as I’m getting it out of the refrigerator I overheard pure ignorance. My wife was watching “The View” or the “Man Hater Show” as I like to call it and they were talking about sex and orgasm and how so much of a percentage of women fake orgasms. Then one of the man-haters (not sure of names) said “That just means 100% of men are clueless”.
This really ticked me off for various reasons. We know that women don’t climax during sex all of the time, but we try our damndest…well most of us do. Anyway, sex and climaxing is a two way street if you will, a team effort. Women just can’t lay there and expect us to know exactly how they need to be stimulated to bring them to climax. I mean come on, most men don’t even know their own bodies until we mature a bit and women can’t expect us to know their body, especially when every woman is different and what works for one does not always work for another.
Men are like dogs. Whoever coined that phrase was a genius. We are. There are no two ways about it. A dog will only do the tricks you teach them or what ever you let them do until you teach them differently. A dog will only please his master the only way he has been taught. If women don’t tell us or at least give us a sign of what stimulates them we will only do what we think works. If they groan or show even the slightest sign of pleasure we continue to do what we think works. If they keep faking pleasure then we will only continue to do those things and they will only continue to fake it.
The mystery of the woman is a never ending quest. We will never figure them out, and just when you think you have them figured out you find out that you are totally wrong and it’s back to the drawing board. Don’t be afraid to read up on these sorts of things in magazines or whatever. The more knowledge you educate yourself with the better off you can be. It also doesn’t hurt to talk a bit during intimacy and ask your lover the where’s and how’s of what makes her twitch. There are few things that are more satisfying then know that you have truly been satisfying.
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2 opinions for Sex…It’s a Team Effort!!
me-mo
Jul 18, 2008 at 4:02 pm
This is not entirely our fault.I have asked a few of the women that I have been with,to let me know how they liked certian “things” done.Only one out of four women gave me any type of instruction,or direction.I sometimes think that even they can’t put their finger on what they like (no pun intended).I have even asked a few,if they were capable of having an orgasm,or if they have ever had an orgasm before.A few even said they weren’t sure if they had or not.
So if some women don’t even know how to have an orgasm,or even if they ever have had an orgasm,how do they expect me to get them off ?
I mean I’m willing to try almost anything to please the woman in my life,but come on ladies you can’t expect me to be responsible for your orgasmic pleasures.Make it a sure thing,a little direction can make a world of diffrence in your sexual pleasure.Why continue to fake it,when with a little communication you can have a far more pleasurable sexual experience with someone who actually cares about how much you are enjoying those intimate moments.
Peace M
Scott
Jul 18, 2008 at 6:57 pm
Amen, Brother. Amen.
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